The Power of Meekness
- Ps David Jones
- Apr 29
- 5 min read
Series: The Beatitudes – Part Four
Pastor David Jones
Sunday Morning Message – 26th April 2026Citywest Church YouTube:
Overview:
As followers of Jesus, we are blessed when we live God’s way—and in His upside-down Kingdom, meekness is not weakness, that comes from being surrendered, shaped, and directed by God.
Leader:
Please choose what best suits your group and fits your available time. This discussion is a little longer, so you do not need to cover every question. Feel free to create your own questions that better suit your group. Select two or three areas to focus on.
Have fun, Jesus people!
Discussion Time
Opening Illustration and Thought
When you hear the word meek, what comes to mind. Someone who is Weak, Passive, Quiet, Avoids conflict. Let’s see what the bible has to say about meekness.
Questions:
What’s your instinctive reaction to the word meek? Or
Has your view of meekness been shaped more by culture or by Scripture?
Starting Point
What does meekness have to do with God? Jesus doesn’t just mention meekness—He calls it blessed. That means it’s a way of living that attracts God’s favour and reflects His nature.
Key Scripture
Read together Matthew 5:5 “Blessed are the meek, For they shall inherit the earth.”
This promise is surprising. We might expect the strong, aggressive, or influential to inherit—but Jesus says it’s the meek. Instead of striving to take control, God invites us to receive what He promises. Meekness positions us to receive, not grasp.
Understanding the kingdom
The Kingdom of God often works in reverse:
The last become first
The humble are lifted
The meek inherit
Meekness is not about losing—it’s about trusting God’s way of winning.
What Meekness Is (and isn’t)
Meekness is NOT:
Weakness
Avoidance
Silence in the face of wrong – we are not a door mat for others to wipe their feet on.
Meekness IS:
Strength, passion and power under control
The ability to respond in grace instead of reacting in the nature of the world
Trusting God with the outcomes
Quick Description: A meek person still has strength, opinions, and convictions—but they are submitted to God’s timing, tone, and purpose.
Greek Word: for "Meek" in is “praus” (πραΰς),
A word meaning: gentle, humble, or mild. It represents "strength under control"
Life Application: Practice the “pause”: before responding in a tense moment, stop and ask, “Holy Spirit, how do You want me to respond?”
Meekness illustration: The Stallion
A wild stallion represents raw power—uncontrolled, instinct-driven. A trained stallion hasn’t lost its strength—it has gained direction. Meekness is not about reducing your strength; it’s about redeeming it, so it serves God’s purposes.
Question and Application:
Identify one strength (like passion, drive, or boldness) and ask: “God, how can this be used for You instead of for me?”
Biblical Example: Moses
Numbers 12:3 NKJV - Now the man Moses was very humble, more than all men who were on the face of the earth.
Moses was called the meekest man on earth—yet he led boldly, confronted evil, and walked in authority.
Leader Discuss: all the exploits that Moses did and the great miracles God did through Moses. Moses didn’t lack strength—he depended on God for it.
Questions and discussion:
Do you rely more on your own strength or God’s?
Where might God be asking you to lead—but with a different spirit?
Meekness and Anger
Anger often reveals where we feel out of control or threatened. Meekness doesn’t eliminate anger—it transforms how we handle it. Slowly and surely, we become more like Christ Jesus, and over time we find that we grow less angry
Scriptures - Ephesians 4:26-27 and James 1:19-20
Questions and possible discussion:
What is your first reaction when you feel disrespected or hurt?
Do you tend to explode, withdraw, or hold onto it?
Life Application:
Next time anger rises:
1- Pause, take some deep breaths, and reset your mind and emotions. Allow around ten seconds.
2- Identify what you’re feeling. Once the emotion is identified, see it as your friend. Because you have taken the opportunity to recognize what it is saying and what you are feeling, you can respond appropriately.
3- Within those ten seconds, invite God into the situation before acting
Meekness in Relationships
Meekness shows up most clearly in how we treat others—especially when it’s hard. It’s choosing gentleness when you could be harsh, patience when you could be reactive, and grace when it’s undeserved.
Questions and discussion:
Is there someone in my world who tests my patience? What would a meek response toward them look like?
(Leader – Do not allow people in your group to mention names or specific situations. This is not a time to be critical.
Life Application: Choose one relationship this week and intentionally:
Speak gently, listen fully and respond with grace
Jesus: The Perfect Example
Jesus describes Himself as meek
Read Matthew 11:29 NKJV – “and you will find rest for your souls.”
Take away thought: Jesus had all power and authority—but chose humility, service, and surrender. He washed the disciples’ feet, showed love to the unlovable, and forgave His enemies. In the ultimate act of meekness, He surrendered His life on the cross for the forgiveness of all mankind.
Questions and discuss:
What part of Jesus’ example challenges you most?
Ask daily: “Jesus, help me respond like You today.”
The Promise of Meekness
Read again Matthew 5:5 - The meek inherit the earth and experience peace.
Jesus was likely quoting Psalm 37:11
Read - Psalm 37:11- NKJV
Earth also meaning land
Two Great Meanings:
- A Future Kingdom Inheritance
This refers to a promised inheritance that is yet to be fully realized. It speaks of a future where everything intended is brought to completion—an inheritance that is whole, secure, and everlasting. It reflects the idea of receiving the fullness of blessing, purpose, and restoration, with nothing lacking or incomplete.
- 2. Their Own Land Signifying Peace (Joyful and Prosperous)
This represents a state of stability, security, and fulfilment. Having “their own land” symbolizes more than physical possession—it points to a life that is settled and well-established. It signifies peace, meaning freedom from fear, conflict, or uncertainty. It is joyful, marked by deep contentment and gladness, not just temporary happiness. It is also prosperous, indicating growth, abundance, and a flourishing condition where needs are met and life is thriving. Peace!
“Blessed” in the Greek language is “Makarios” – Blessed, Happy and Fortunate.
A spiritual joy and flourishing that is not dependent on circumstances.
Question:
What do you think “inherit the earth” means in your everyday life?
Final Thought and Life Application: Peace often follows surrender.
Ask: “What do I need to release to experience God’s peace?”
Remember you are “Blessed”
Final Thought
Meekness isn’t weakness—its strength surrendered to God, shaped by His Spirit, and released for His purpose. In God’s Kingdom, that kind of life doesn’t lose—it leads to peace, influence, and true inheritance.
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